Category Archives: Information

Honest Blogging (Part 2 – the bad times)

Second, on my proverbial examination table, which I’m now turning into a comfy psychiatrists couch (because it’s much more about strong internal emotions and feelings), is the “bad times” themselves. What constitutes a bad or difficult time in the D/s … Continue reading

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Rituals and “Bad Master!”

In a D/s or M/s dynamic rituals can be very important. A ritual is something that is done, on a repetitive basis, with a certain intent or focus and it can help a submissive/slave stay in that mindset even when other … Continue reading

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Alternative Information Resources

Originally this article started out for Dom’s but I started thinking it works for Sub’s too. People who are new to the D/s or M/s lifestyle try to devour information like candy on Halloween – in large copious amounts within … Continue reading

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Evolution of a Consensual slave (Part 3)

Know that there is a difference between being selfish and having your needs met.  Selfishness is one of the hardest things to release.  As much as I inherently love to please I also have a selfish side, we all do.  … Continue reading

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A submissive Through the Looking Glass (For the Dominant, Part 2)

She wants to be appreciated.  My Master is very good about telling me how much He appreciates my efforts to serve Him.  I love that!  In a sense it’s positive reinforcement.  The more I hear “Good girl” the more I … Continue reading

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A submissive Through the Looking Glass….(For the Dominant, Part 1)

For the Dominant, the following is a little insight into the submissive mind…. She wants to feel like she comes first in your life.  As a submissive, I want to feel like I come first in my Master’s life.  I … Continue reading

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